For Mitch, a recent move from Lincolnwood to Skokie wasn’t just a change in address, it was a step toward greater independence, responsibility and connection. Moving out of his parents’ home marked a major milestone for Mitch, as he also became the 30th resident to join a JCFS-supported integrated community living home.

“I just moved out of my parents’ house on April 7,” said Mitch, who has a knack for remembering exact dates. “I like living here with new people.”

The Community Integrated Living Arrangement (CILA) is home to adults with Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities (I/DD).

Mitch has three roommates, plus JCFS staff who help manage their schedules, house maintenance, individual responsibilities and transportation. And although some of the logistics of the move are still being ironed out, Mitch has adapted very well.

“I’m happy with this move,” he said.

Mitch’s parents, Susan and Mark, who learned about the residential homes at a JCFS fundraiser, were not surprised at how well Mitch has adjusted to his new surroundings.

“He’s very accepting of whatever happens and comes his way,” said Mark, who describes Mitch as happy and agreeable.

Susan added “We’ve really thrown a lot at him in a very short period. And he’s doing very well.”

Susan explained that Mitch had spent three months in Florida with her and Mark last winter, and during that time they talked a lot about his upcoming move to a residential home. Within a week of returning from vacation, Mitch moved out of his parents’ home.

He faced some changes in his new home. First, his long-time job at Mariano’s was moved to a new location when the store he worked at closed. He also switched to a new day program, which he attends twice a week to participate in different activities.

Mitch’s smooth transition into his new home is likely due to his well-established good habits and a can-do attitude.

“Mitch is a doer,” said Sean McElhany, Assistant Director of Residential Supports. “He likes to participate in activities. No matter what we present to him, he’s into it. Mitch is extremely open-minded when it comes to giving things a try.”

This also pertains to daily responsibilities. Mitch takes out the garbage and sweeps the floor, tends to the flowers in the yard, is happy to lend a hand making dinner and never misses a chance to run an errand or go shopping. He also maintains a consistent daily routine, taking care of his personal responsibilities without being asked.

“He takes a lot of pride in being able to do things for himself,” said Anthony LeMaster, QIDP Case Manager for the Residential Supports Program.

Mitch gets along with his roommates and the house staff, and enjoys doing activities with them such as playing games, shooting hoops, watching tv and working out. He has also learned how to give other people space when they need it.

His parents visit Mitch at his new home, but Susan said she tries to contact staff first to check their schedule.

“We respect the fact that that is his home now and if they’re going to do something, he should do it with them,” she said.

Overall, Mitch’s parents have been pleased with the home and the staff. They have also had to make their own adjustments since Mitch moved out.

“Those first nights, sitting at a table for two instead of three,” Susan said. “I think it might have been harder for us than it was for him.”

Mitch might agree, saying proudly, “I’ve grown up and moved out.”

More information about our Community Integrated Living Arrangements can be found at JCFS.org.